Happy Valentine’s Day

This is dedicated to all my women. To be your best self. To slay,

be you, be bold, be a tigress.  

When I was in high school I had a crush on a guy who was popular.. he was tall, charming..cute (Hi Chris) when he took notice on me I was surprised because back then I was a shy nerd... once he asked me to be his girlfriend I was a happy girl.. then not even 30 mins after he asked me to be his girlfriend.. he told everyone he wanted to break up..  I asked one of his friends why? His friend replied .. “because you were too goofy.”

 Time and time again I dated people who would critique me on what I chose to wear, how I acted, or because I had tattoos. I never wanted to change who I am, why would I need to change who I am? It took me a while to realize that I’m my own unique self. I don’t want to be like everyone else, I don’t want to be fake. I want to be real. I want to be sexual, be goofy, or wear what I want and not be judged or shamed for it. 

I’m strong! Like I always say.. be you be bold be a tigress. 

This is my introduction to the  “ breakupclub”/“brakeup club.” Supporting women to be their own unique selves and have a support system when they go through a bad break up. We’re not here to judge, critique, or make you realize what your doing is wrong( we’re not your mama) but we are here to listen... yeah listen. That’s what we need, to talk to each other and compare stories, motivate each other, because what’s most important is you. Have confidence in you, love you, be happy with you and bond with nature, go out to outings, it’s all all about positive energy! We need to learn and grow from our mistakes.. learn how to fix them. Remember, what doesn’t kill you makes you stronger.  For this v-Day.. it’s about us ❤️💋 Let’s do it. If you don’t have a man this Valentine’s.. no problem. Dress up for your self. Take your self out.  Oh, and to the men that support us...thank you. It’s all about self love 101 percent 😉🙌🏽

Happy Valentine’s Day to everyone.

She was hurting, but she didn’t run away from it. She embraced the pain. Because when it is deep, that is what has to be done. You have feel your way out of the darkness when you can’t see the light. -Jmstorm

This is a journey of self healing. This year was self awakening I’m glad things happened the way it did, made me realize a lot of things. Made me appreciate my family, friends.. even more. Never take anything for granted. Stay humble. Stay strong. Find your support system if you don’t have that is okay we are here to motivate. This is not to talk about hating men or hating players all that stuff. It’s to help guide to create your own lifestyle, heal from the pendejadas, be your greatest self you can be. Making the #thebrakeupclub is to help one another to heal from the pendejadas no matter what’s the case that’s how we are rolling. To show you you can do this. What ever it is just let it go enjoy life 🙌🏽 you can do this.

If you want to join our group let us know limited capacity

I do feel that you should not just wait for him and I know that you’re not. I feel like you should continue to go on your journey keep meeting people keep dating try to find happiness in other things don’t let his negativity push you in a downfall.